11 (12) Traits of A Quality Woman

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The beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode, but the true beauty in a woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives; the passion that she shows. The beauty of a woman grows with the passing years.”

~ Audrey Hepburn

In this article, we focus on some of the common traits of quality women. We hope that the content is entertaining and insightful; perhaps even useful.

Source: 11 Traits of A Quality Woman

Here are 11 common traits quality women share:

To which I have added a twelfth, at the end! I have also included comments [inset, like this one] where I felt them to be warranted. This is referring, of course, to women who are worthy of not only dating and forming close relationships with, but also – hopefully and ideally – the lifelong bond of matrimony. So what are these traits? They may not be limited to, but certainly include, the following: Continue reading “11 (12) Traits of A Quality Woman”

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What women really want is the patriarchy | The Sacred Feminine

“Women have blindly followed the feminist mantra and now find themselves lonely and confused. It’s time to welcome back the patriarchy.” I discovered this article on The Federalist …

Source: What women really want is the patriarchy | The Sacred Feminine

I discovered this article on The Federalist and I have to say that it is spot on. It accurately describes problems that women and men face, why modern relationships do not work out and how it hurts the traditional family model…

Men and women both need to ditch this feminist propaganda and find their way back to their true selves. This is the only way we can have secure and happy families with both parties feeling self-fulfillment and knowing that their role is just as important as the other’s.

Interesting (if provocative) reflections on the original essay by the same name, from the author of the blog, “The Sacred Feminine.” Read it – and then click through to the original. Continue reading “What women really want is the patriarchy | The Sacred Feminine”

Women Should Appreciate Masculine Virtues – Crisis Magazine

“In this column, I will do something a little bit unprecedented. I specifically wish to address my female readers, and to issue a challenge. Can we make a special resolution to be good to the men and boys in our lives?”

Source: Women Should Appreciate Masculine Virtues – Crisis Magazine

“Men are at their best when they know that the women who love them are counting on them to come through. Let’s make sure that our husbands, sons, brothers and priests all know that they have good reason to be their very best.”

While written from a Roman Catholic – and female! – perspective, this excellent essay needless to say applies equally to Anglicans, and indeed to all Christians. Well worth a read!

The slow, tentative return of women’s lost sense of sexual honour

Source: MercatorNet: The slow, tentative return of women’s lost sense of sexual honour

The author of this essay, Barbara Kay, notes:

“Honour… is sex-specific. Male honour is rooted in physical courage; women’s honour is rooted in sexual modesty.”

This is a bit of an over-simplification, but there is nonetheless validity to it. Certainly that has been the traditional understanding — and traditions generally become traditions for good reason! Women are, after all, the child-bearers; men, being typically larger and stronger (although not necessarily as resilient), fall naturally into the role of protectors and defenders.

“Men are ashamed to be called out for being cowards; women are ashamed to be called out for being sluts.”

Well, most are. These days some women take pride in it, even going so far as to take part in “slut walks,” flaunting their “sluttiness” for the world to see. Conversely, there are some men — such as the NY Daily News columnist who claimed to have gotten “temporary PTSD” from firing a mildly-recoiling and not exceptionally loud AR-15, appear to take pride in their lack of physical or moral courage.

“Morality is usually a private affair. But, as Alexis de Toqueville wrote, ‘Honour acts solely for the public eye.’ Before the personal became the political, we made a firm distinction between public and private behavior, and as a collective, we only judged public actions. Today that line is almost utterly obliterated.”

This is problematic in a number of regards; however, a full discussion is beyond the scope of this entry… let us continue:

“The jettisoning of honour as a criterion for judging the behaviour of others has been the assiduously pursued task of ‘progressives’ throughout the 20th century. Conversely, the application of honour as the only criterion in judging the behaviour of others – notably the sexual behaviour of girls and women – has been the assiduously pursued task of Islamists in their own lands, and in the last several decades in the western lands to which they have migrated in large numbers.

“Both of these ideologically-rooted drives represent poles of honour-related extremism. Both are socially destructive of healthy relations between the sexes. And both tend to obscure the fact that in reasonable doses, honour is a force for good in society.”

This is important to note, because an extreme position in either direction becomes unbalanced. Moderation, the via media (middle way) between extremes, is usually the most appropriate course.

“In the West, tribalist honour joined forces with Christianity to produce a distinctly western strain of honour, which we call chivalry.”

Chivalry often gets a bad rap these days, but it should not. It is really about being properly human: respecting all, but giving special deference to those — such as women and children — who are generally less likely to be able to protect themselves, and conducting oneself with courtesy and kindness toward all: not just one’s social superiors, but those of lower station, as well.

“Nobody is pretending that men and women today should aspire to replicate the relationship of Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth Bennet in Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, written in 1813, but there is a reason this honourable couple continues to attract fascinated and even envious attention from every new generation of women who discover them. Something in our nature craves the constraints that produce the rewards an honour code confers.”

The author of this essay, Barbara Kay, concludes:

“Societies with strong honour codes have a well-developed sense of duty and sacrifice. Too little, and nothing seems worth fighting for. Too much, and everything seems worth dying for. Finding the balance is the key.”

Indeed. It generally is! Sadly, we have seemed to be badly off-balance for some decades, now. I hope and pray she is right, and the pendulum is swinging — however slowly — back toward the middle.